♥ Wednesday, December 19, 2007 ;; 1:19 AM
i tink this post may offend ppl. so, those who feel offended, plz dun be offended.
im jus stating my point of view. im oso nt referring to anyone.
what keeps the relationship going?
both sacrifising for each other? one doing the job to keep the relationship going?
one doing more than the other? both trying their best to change for each other? or izit one person changing for the person?
who is more at the disadvantage? the girl or the guy?
sometimes, isit beta for someone to love you, or isit u love the person?
would u feel more blessed to have someone who love u more than u love him?
ppl may say.they love each other. so they feel blessed.
bt does tat apply to everyone??
sometimes when the girl likes the guy more than the guy likes her, the girl tends to lose out.
the guy will tend nt to appreciate the girl. it may nt feel that way for the first few mths. bt what bout the rest of the mths? when the honeymoon period is over, will the girl be the one who tries to keep the relationship going?
regardless of sexes, it may apply to guys too. when guys tend to love more than the girls do, they may oso be the one losing out too. girls may tend to expect more from the guys.
bt wat can the guys do?? when the guy love the girl more, they may sacrifise more for her.
so?
what the hell is relationship?
sacrifising each other or enjoying the happy times together?
i wouldnt say truely sacrifising.enjoying the happy times, yes. tat's of cuz.
bt i have been sacrifising be4. and the feelings sux big time.
realli. try doing more and nt getting appreciated.
either u would wanna punch the guy big time or jus scold the hell out of him.
bt when u love him, will u even bear to do so?
i have seen and heard things going wrong, things going realli sweet, things having a good and happy ending. tong ren bu tong ming u noe.
who dun wan to be happy with their partner? who dun wan to be accepted by the other person?
who dun wan to enjoy and make happy memories ? who dun wan to last wif their partners?
BUT, sumtimes, things jus dun go their/our way. what we expected may nt even become true.
it may become other things, which may make the matter worse.
sumtimes, i do feel tat isit beta nt to be in a relationship..
yes. once u end a relationship, it will be a torture, especially when u still love the person so much. bt yet cuz of some reasons, it jus have to end.
yet, u wanna feel love, especialy girls, isnt it? bt.. u are risking ur heart of getting hurt again.
yes, i do agree i wanna get into a relationship. however, i dun wan to get hurt again. i dun wanna be the one who sacrifise more than the other person. see? what's the reasons for all these fear? the hou yi zhen of the past relationship.
i noe, nth is perfect, even relationship.. bt the past relationship has hurt me too much to try starting all over again.
when the amount of fear is more than those happy memories, it becomes a nightmare to me.
is this part and parcel of life??
nw, i have no idea where im heading towards.
i dunno i shld stop whatever i am feeling or wat.
i mean, yes. i do wanna try.
bt i find that its aint going anywhere.
i get hurt here and there. i feel happy here and there.
so what nw?? getting depressed?
this post may seems unreasonable cuz there's definitely nt everyone whose gonna agree wif this.
bt that's how i feel and what i see..
i dunno.. i jus feel like posting thiss.
it seems emo.
okay wateva.
will delete if ppl spams about it
bye.
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